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How do you deal with someone who is COMPLETELY amazing BUT....
Has had somethings happen in their past, apparently, and are insecure with you. Yet they wont talk to you about it. Or they are just constantly looking for stuff to make an issue about. Going as far as to twist up things you say into completely NOT what you were saying? Always making you out to be the bad guy when you are just trying to make them happy. And hanging onto the bullshit THEY put in your mouth for an insane amount of time. Putting you on the defensive for shit you never even did or said.
Is there anything that can be done? How long do you try to stick it out - even after you have done all you can think of... ie, passwords to accounts, showing texts - Hiding NOTHING from them.. making sure everyone in your life knows about them. How do you help them get over it, and stay over it - and get back to just having fun and enjoying each other - instead of being completely drained trying to fix something that is actually just made up?
You truly care for them and want things to be amazing, and are willing to do anything to make them feel secure. But what can you do and how long do you try before you just have to cut your losses and get out?
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