Many times we women sit and wonder if there are any "good guys" left..
ok.. so the guys wonder that about the women too..but I see it more so on the women's point..
I think what happens and this is my own opinion is that.. we get mistreated so much (often times by our own fault) and we set ourselves up for that...
If we think guys are going to be assholes.. they are going to be..
If we think guys are going to run around.. they probably will..
We find what we seek .. we seek those "no good, cheatin dogs" because its what we expect..
Unfortunately..
If you clump them all into a group you will never find that ONE that is honest, caring.. hardworking.. dedicated and loyal.. all you will see is the one that will run out on you, treat you like crap and disrespect every aspect of your relationship..
Men and women disrespect each other because that is what is expected.. men expect women to be bitches.. so we are.. women expect men to be untrustworthy and cheat.. so they do..
I guess my point is.. dont expect them to be assholes and you might be surprised at the person you find.. not all men are bad.. not all women are bitches..
