I’m Guilty
Why is it woman forget about men’s inner self? I’m guilty, I too bitch! Nine times out of ten, man has done, or prove to me of his childhood, or sexual drive...but that doesn’t mean I should always believe all men are like that. I’ve had my moments to complain about him(i.e. a mate of the time) not picking up after himself, or leaving things out. About how lazy I feel he might be, or that we don’t do anything anymore; how we might always be struggling for money, how unfair I might think he’s being.
I know there are ton’s of books, mostly written by woman, about how to deal with these feelings and emotions....but lets face it, woman....men are no different about their ups and downs than we are. I say this thinking of my own feelings, emotions and actions. And while I am on the verge of beginning a new relationship, I am graced with a wonderful writer in mind, I am fortunate enough to see some of his thoughts in his writings. Of course every person, be it man or woman, want to believe their situation is different and they understand their partner... I too am guilty of believing, or should I state thinking, that he was no different them the “rest “. Then I realized just how much of a blanketed statement I had going in my mind....that and I wasn’t giving him a fair chance. (If you read this Dear, forgive me please)
I can only try, and hope I do better....I would hate to be compared to all woman, and especially those of his past. A whole lot of loving is what I have to offer, including my ups and downs, but all the better to share them my Dear.
