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| created @ 01/21/2008 10:12 pm |
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OK, I met this guy from about three hours away, and we had a whirlwind romance, probably a little to fast, but were so serious to the point that we were shopping for rings and making plans to go to Massachussetts to get married this spring. He came up for the weekend to visit with me, (he comes here on the weekends and I go threre through the week), and while he was here, spent the entire weekend pushing me off of him and refusing to give me ANYTHING, and then informed me that he doesn't know if he wants this or not, but knows for a fact that he does not want to have to give up his bookstores and Bathhouses and other guys. he wants a week to think about things before we make any decisions in any direction, and promised me that nothing would change between us in this week if I would give him that time, but had not called or texted me since he left yesterday, and sends me very short and curt responses when I message him. My Dilemma is do I listen to my heart and believe that he will come back to me at the end of the week, or do I listen to my heart and tell him he is going to make up his mind and give up everyone else NOW, if he really does love me? I love him more than I ever have anyone and dont want to lose him, but don't feel it is too much to ask for him to not sleep with others, I even went so far as to say that I dont like it, but would be willing to have threesomes or go to the bathhouses together if he needed it, but that was not good enough. So What do I do? do I wiat this out and hope for the best, or Do I say fuck you NOW before I get even more hurt in the end, cause if he doesn't want to be intimate with me now, and not sure if he wants to commit to me, wont he do that again in the future when something cute comes wandering along?
So do I believe in my heart and love for him and wait this out, or do I tell him that if he cant commit to me right now, he needs to step out of my life altogether so I can move on?
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