Why is it ok for one female to have a "REAL LIFE" boyfriend and 7 CT "Husbands" and "fuck friends" BUT you, a single woman are not allowed to talk to anyone on that is on that list?
Ok, imagine the female i just mentioned and then
along comes me, I am new to this site, people want to add me, that's fine, I'll talk to anyone who talks to me. Then u make friends, there are some people u can communicate with more then others, u have more in common with them then just random people, so u add them to your family not knowing that FEMALE #1 is watching your page and your friends list and your comments and MONITORING them like an insecure teenage girl.
THEN when FEMALE #1 feels one of the guys has said 2 much to FEMALE #2, she comes to tell u all about every last man thats on your page and why not to talk to them and they are her men, they have phone sex,cyber sex, pays his bills, he is moving to be near her, he loves her, he is gay, he is a perv...or whatever the reason may be. Now I know this is cuz she doesn't want someone else to be liked more then her, I'm a female, I get that. I just go along with it because its no big deal. I've heard this shyt before.
So female #2, (ME) takes those men off the page because she doesn't want to cause conflict and its not that serious. it's the damn internet for god sake! But then the guys keep coming back and wanting to chat and I feel like I shouldn't be told who I can and cannot talk to. I'm a grown woman. I don't have to listen to anyone. Especially from some female who has a good man at home but talks all kinds of stuff that shouldn't be talked about to men that are not her real boyfriend. If u are in a serious relationship it is disrespectful to him. If you have that type of arrangement where it is ok, then fine, but it has to go both ways. He can do the same thing that you can. But seriously, you should put more time into loving your man that monitoring him. It works better.
It's not like me and any of those guys were makin plans to hook up or anything, we just chat. Im new to ST LOUIS, I don't know many people so I get online and chat. I got one guy I talk about NBA/NCAA with, one that I talk about cooking/food, one I talk about relationship issues, one I talk about school...we don't sit here and talk about how to make each other leave our partners. Its just a place to relax and chat without the DRAMA of going out or causing friction in the home. Now it seems like u can't chat online without the drama.
THIS PART IS FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS ACTIN:
I was accused today of trying to steal her man. First of all, she has NO business going through a grown man's webpages, notes, phone records, emails...PERIOD...he is not a child. Women that do that, need to find a hobby. If you can't trust your man, then u have no business being with him. All you are doing is making yourself unhealthy and making yourself go crazy and look insecure in your man's eyes. Second of all, we were talkin about general stuff, life, past relationships, things that are not SEXUAL in nature. I'm not that kind of girl and he did not hide the fact that he has a woman. I actually thought the woman was kind of cool at first but I realized she was intimidated by me. You can't keep a man by controlling him! Learn that or you may end up learning the hard way. By the way, stop texting me, stop calling me, stop emailing me...get a life. you got 7 CT men to worry about.
NOW, on to another bitch...I got another one that posts fukked up shyt about me cuz I talk to someone on her list so she has to go write all the guys on my list and tell them I'm a whore, cunt, bitch, slut...which is funny to me cuz for me to be fuckin all them guys, I must have a lot of frequent flier miles!!! I should be exhausted!! and for the record, at least on my page you aren't gonna find 10 different dicks in me at different times...so who is the REAL slut?
Thank you for letting me vent. It has been bothering me all week.
