March 28th, exactly 8 months ago today, coincedentaly, I found out my husband of 10 years had fallen in love with a woman on the net. ( We met 11 years ago on the net, I mean hell, left his Country for me and traveled 3000 miles to be with me.) He told me that night after much discussion to listen very closely to one of my favorite songs. All Saints, "Never Ever". I know the song by heart, of course. I listened to it, got through the first part of it, burst into tears, and turned it off. Just hearing and remembering the words about not giving enough affection, blaming herself for him not loving her anymore, etc. Only thought of his words a couple of times since then and wouldn't listen to it again. Well the holiday spirit of blues and all, I decided to listen to it today and realized, he was trying to tell me it wasn't really my fault. It kinda made me feel better. That's a good thing for me right now. Ok enough rambling. If you got his far, watch the video :P