So it's interesting. I always thought I had a good relationship until today. Come to find out, while I was sleeping with my wife, she slept with a co-worker while I was at work. Granted I work graveyards, but it hit home that my marriage may have been an illusion. I'm not going to throw away my marriage because of this but trying to figure out how to cope with it is eluding my mind.
I thought about me going out and doing the same to her but of course that isn't going to make things better. That could make things work and I have too much to lose. I know in my heart that I wanna get past it but it seems like it's going to be somewhat difficult. I told her how I really felt about it and how it hurt me but I wasn't going to give up on us over this one incident. Of course, she attempted to try to cheer me up by saying it was actually horrible but that doesn't change the fact that she slept with him while I was at work.
I guess if anyone has any advice that they want to share, I'm up for it. If anything, I'll just take it one day at a time and see what happens.
