Ok so there is this guy that comes in to where I work all the time and hes absolutely a doll! got the whole looks thing down but, no real personality...is friend is not that cute but, hes got the whole personality thing going.....which makes me wonder have you ever noticed that guys alot of times that are cute are wrapped up in themselves they know they are cute and can get by with anything...but, the guys that are not as cute they have to depend on their personality they have to be able to make you laugh and stuff otherwise you wont give them the time of day....why are we girls like that...I mean sometimes you get a guy that is got looks and personality but, its rare...my husband I think hes cute but,thats because he makes me laugh and I can have a good time with him (most of the time) but, some girls wouldnt give him the time or anything because hes not like a 10 on the physical scale....what Im tryin to say ladies is maybe yall need to start checking out the guys who can make you laugh and you dont have to jump through a trillion hoops to keep him...I know my husband loves me I have no doubt in my mind..I know he would never cheat on me ...(never mind that I would cut a very important part of him off if he did and he knows it) and yes there are times when Im like please god get him away from me!!!! but, that is with any marriage or relationship I mean there was a time when we would spend like every waking moment together we were like glued to each other but, after almost 6 yrs of marriage we kinda need the me time....My grandma always said that she never had a headache until she got married....and her and papaw were married for almost 50 yrs! so, I think there is something to be said for me time.....anyways Im done give advice for the night!