here`s a story about dating when i was young " you went to bars, seen people in ( person ), I was at one, and guys were sending drinks down from other end of the bar, after a while one guy came in and he to sent me a drink from that end, but this one soon came over next to me and ask could he sit with me a while and talk and he ended up sitting with me the whole time i was there, so we did a lot of talking, and when i got ready to leave he walked me home safe, and we made a date to meet again soon, but he kept coming by and helped me with things around my place, well he ended up being my husband. he`s passed away now 3 1/2 yrs.