this new stepmother as the same name as i do and is two years older than me.. what the hell so i do.. this will make number 9.. and i always get put on the back bunner.. them and there kids has always come before me.. why does this always happen to me.. he has never cared about me.. and i all wanted was a dad that really cared.. but he turned his back on me again just like he did when i was a baby.. taking care of others kids was more importment than me.. just dont know what to do anymore...