Today is the first day of winter. The shortest day of the year. This means two things, constants every year.
First off, it means that from now until next June, the days will get a little longer everyday. By now, we can all use a bit more sunshine, or just daylight. The medical profession calls it "SAD" - seasonal affective disorder - but I always just called it the winter blues. Going to work in the dark and then going home in the dark sucks monkey butt, I think we would all agree.
Secondly, it means Christmas is in 3 days. The reason for the season, as is said. It means down time for a lot of us, time with family & friends. School is out. Businesses close. Families gather for the customary exchange of gifts and to share a special meal. We all have fond memories of Christmas & Santa Claus. It is a day of joy and fellowship.
It also means that the new year begins very soon. The calendar turns over to a different year and many take it as a fresh start, time to take a new approach in some fashion.
I tend to buck these customary things. I take it as a time to recharge the batteries and buckle down for the long stretch between New Year's day and Memorial Day. My family lives far away, I can't always get there to visit. Of course, the travel opportunities go both ways, but it seems that they seldom come my way, and never for this time of year.
Maybe a good thing!
However, I do miss my grandsons. Due to domestic problems for my son, they will not be available for a visit from Gampaw. Or to come visit me either. This is a major bummer, but it cannot be changed, so it is what it is.
This year I will celebrate quietly as usual. I will lift my glass of sparkling beverage on Christmas Eve and toast my blessings. I will smile and laugh as is my nature, and enjoy my annual tradition. I will sleep late and when I awake on Christmas day, begin preparing my special meal.
It will be a great day! I hope all of you will also have a special day, and Merry Christmas to all! As I embark on my 3rd year as a FU-barian, thanks to all of my fine friends & family here in the virtual world for so much joy & pleasure. You all absolutely ROCK!
Hugs
Charley
