*Fair warning before anyone reads this. I am just venting*
So much for so called friends. All I hear from this person is how much they want to spend time with me and next thing you know time is available and they don't show. This isn't the first time and I will probably do my best to make sure it is the last time that this happens.
On Sunday I double checked with this person to make sure Tuesday was on since I had the opportunity to not only watch my friends daughter, I also had another opportunity of getting a little extra cash on the side. The person assured me Tuesday was on, so I passed on the opportunity because we had plans first.
So now it's Monday and I don't hear much from the so called friend. I give him a call no answer left a voicemail for him in the early afternoon. I called later in the evening and still no answer from him, so I left a second voicemail. Just before I went to bed I decided to send and IM to him since I saw he was on. Finally I get a response from him, but it wasn't with the results I was hoping for. Sure enough he planned something else on Tuesday so once again I am blown off. I told him he has to make choices for what is best for him, but if he knew Tuesday wasn't going to work he should of told me on Sunday when he knew and I could of went with plan #2. Again he tells me how he wants to spend time with me. I don't really respond because again my thinking is if you really want to spend time with someone you don't find some excuse everytime it is suppose to happen. Not to mention he tried to claim he was doing this for "Us" and I reminded him there is no "us" and frankly never will be. I asked him if he was going to call be when he was done on Tuesday to talk. He says yeah I will. I told him to make sure that he calls me at home and not on my cell.
So now it is Tuesday. I am doing my own thing getting some things done around home. Just kicking back and relaxing. Most people I talk to on a regular basis and especially my friends know that my yahoo messenger is usually on 24/7. They also know that there may be times they message me and I don't respond why you may ask. It is for the simple fact that there are times Yahoo recycles and takes away my away message. Most people know if I am somewhere close I will respond, and if I don't respond I am not near by. Well so he is home from his event, doesn't call me, but send me an IM instead because he saw my screen name on and thought sending an IM was just as good as calling. Well what a surprise I didn't answer him why, because I wasn't near the computer. His response when I finally got it was, well there wasn't an away message. *SMACK* I again remind him of what happens. So I ask him what happened to him calling, he was like I just got home. I was like yeah but you send me an IM I didn't answer. I didn't get his IM for like 25 minutes so he could of called. My theory is he never planned on calling.
So instead of him manning up and calling to talk to me he only sends me IM's. Appologizing once again for not following through. Trying to tell me I cancelled once, which I didn't deny but you know when your in bed sick it is different then because of what ever the excuse for the week. He is claiming that he should of been more considerate and think of how his actions would make me feel. He also was like I shouldn't of done what I did putting career before family. I reminded him that we aren't family, we are ONLY friends.
Well then he gets mad becase I refuse to sit on Yahoo to talk to him. I told him I was going back to what I was doing and if he wanted to talk he could call the house. He doesn't call and he puts the message "can't do anything right" up as his status message.
