Okay, This is going to be a bit of a ranting blog. I am soooo sick and tired of women sitting there whining they are overweight. If I hear one more girl just pitch a fit about a few extra pounds I think I will seriously have a coronary.
All the time I see women going "Oh god my boyfriend is leaving me cos I am fat....my life is over..." Sister let me give you a CLUE. If your man is turning tail because you have a little extra junk in your trunk why the HELL would you want him any how??? Seriously, not one single person is going to be young forever, and eventually everything we have will head SOUTH, it is a matter of TIME. SO what will you say for yourself then??
Let me tell you what you do, honey, the second he gives you that lame assed excuse. You look him straight in the eye and tell him"Fine, take your ass to whomever, I do not want nor need a man to complete myself". Because you DON'T. If the only way you can complete yourself is to be attached to someone's titty, then honey you need help. Women are people in their own right, their own thoughts, ideas and feelings. We are NOT defined by men, we are not some disassociated part of THEM.
I am not a femnazi, by any means, I adore men, some of my closest friends are male. I actually have the problem with women who are so self loathing that they think with out a man they are worthless. Honey there is no man on this earth that will ever make you happy till you learn to love and accept yourself. Until then you will just keep floating like some miserable parasite, never having ANYTHING lasting.
Also this is not against LOOSING WEIGHT. I, myself, as a big beautiful woman, have no desire to change my lovely pear shaped self. BUT I do not frown on women who want to be healthy, and have a healthy lifestyle. But health does not always equate to thin, and thin does not always equate to happy. Baby girl Skinny women get left TOO.
All I am saying is this, until you find your own self worth, nothing will ever make you happy.
