FRIENDSHIPS HAVE NO COLOR AND FRIENDSHIPS ARE NOT ONE WAY
HEY YALL,
How yall doing? i'm doing fine, just wondering what goes on in some of yalls heads is all. especially towards friendships. Doesn't anyone treasure "REAL" friendship anymore? i'm being for real right now please don't shake your head and said "yea whatever".
"REAL" Friendships are RARE!!! those are the ones that should treasured and handled with T.L.C. never take advantage of a real friend. in the end it doesnt hurt anyone but yourself because god was blessing you with one and you didn't appreciate it so he took them away. my question is well..........
i have only a few chosen close friends, i keep the ones who are worth keeping. ones who are REAL. this is for the ones who are messenging me in chats on messenger and wherever else. if you want to talk to me ? i will listen . i won't ever turn anyone down in need, some people really do need a someone to talk to.but for those of you who just want to hook up and not get to know anyone please go away, because that is not what i am here for. and my question is for those of you who do act that way. and then say yes i'm looking for true friendship "make up my mind" lol . if you were looking for true friendships, now i'm talking about friendships that will be here thru thick and thin." UNCONDITIONALLY". well, my advice to you is learn to get to know someone ok? how can one get to know you if you don't try too. FRIENDSHIP A REAL ONE IS NOT A ONE WAY ROAD!!. and for those of you who don't get what i'm saying to you, you can't expect one to make all the effort. it doesn't work that way.and if you think it does well................ you will always have a hard time making friendships and keeping one that is real.
and i want to know something? why does friendship have to have color seperation? in my world their is no color, WE ALL BLEED THE SAME ( DO WE NOT ?) that is ignorant. it really is and it is sad? and why wouldn't we want to know someone who is disabled? aren't they people too? why do some of yall feel that way? you are so missing out on beautiful people.they have feelings too. just as you do. yes thats right just as you do you know who you are.
i'll give you AN EXAMPLE: i have a friend that i have been friends with for 20 yrs plus we have been thru so much it doesn't matter where we are where we go,we stay tight,we are each others safe zone. i have a friend of mine i met about 3 yrs ago in jacksonville he is my confidant also i wouldn't trade him for the world.YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE , our friendship will make it to 20 years plus and then some. i also have met one on here he lives in michigan. Don't worry i won't meantion your name wouldn't want anyone to know your a good guy or nothing sweetie lol but he is real too, he too is someone i can share with and it comes back from him. now that is REAL FRIENDSHIP!!! eternall friendship i call it, someone whom you trust your life with and they trust theirs with you. how many of you can say you truely have friends like that i'm sure you do, but what i'm getting at is for those of you that IM me and want to be friends as you say, well. here's the secret with me ok? I ONLY KEEP THE REAL ONES. i keep the ones who make an effort too. the ones who take the time to get to know me as a person and allow me to do the same with them if i am the one who is trying and you arent eventually i will delete you because ,life is too short to waste on one who doesn't make time, if i waste all my time on someone who is playing games that takes away my time i could be putting into ones who appreciate. all i'm saying is don't say you need real friends if you don't want to make the effort. you're only hurting yourself.everyone needs good friends. you will never be alone when you have real friends. THINK ABOUT IT. yall take care and god bless
