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In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.
People have several different types of friendships. Best friends, Friends with benifits, a person you know by repution but arent really freinds with, we all have a few frenemies, and I could go on and on.
The hardest part about being that close to a woman is because well, we are some crazy, catty bitches who enjoy keeping shit stirred up, not letting things die down, hiding in the bushes like a hungry lioness to pounce and devour your best best friend.
When I was little friendship was about who could jump rope the best, play hop scotch better, was it longer in a game of tag, whoever was the better hidder in Hide and go Seek.
Now as my children are getting older (my son is 15, my middle daughter ie 13 and my "baby"is 10) I notice how their ideas of friendships differ from the way ours did when we were their age. We would play outside until it was pitch black with no fear of being kidnapped, but when you heard your mom or dad whistle you knew it was time to race your little ass home. We LOVED being out side, catching bug, playing tag, mother may I, red light green light, red rover, red rover and build forts in the bushes.
Now it seems to me friendship is less and less based on the fundamental principals and more on how big a TV the have in their room, how big a stero they have, what kinda car they drive, which new gaming system they have.
Another thing I noticed is no one does any thing for people any more unless there is something in it for them. I don't want my childreb to grow up thinking they are owned something, I want them to work for everything they get. I'm not saying I won't help but I'm not completely paying for a car, or insurance, or damages to the car.
The same "I'll buy you something " if you "buy me something" what even happened to doing something just to make soeones days. Just to make someone smile. That smile and the words "Thank you" should be payment enough.
