ok first you never getin this lifestyle for no one but yourself,a Dom sould never become one for any woman he sould always do it for himself no matter what,if he does not then he is doing it not for himself,this goes asl well for a Domme,when you do this lifestyle for another sex it means you are putting them first and if you are a Dom/Domme you never put them first unless you wish to,i learned the hard way i got into this lifestyle many years ago not for no woman i done it cause i enjoyed the power the control over a woman,if i would have done it any diff it would mean less of me i wouldn't have any respect for those who come befor me,as for me i am not the same Dom like i was when i started but the thing is it doesn't matter if i have changed over the years point blank i done this lifestyle for myself that is first off for any one of us in control then it comes pleasure.
june5,2007 written by LordRipper 
