well i talked to my dad yesterday and he has told me the doc has informed him he has what they call a flap, its now gotten to the point where he is having a hard time breathing and cannot eat :( . Hes also told me that he go's for his pre-op on friday then he said surgery is supose to be done on october 2nd. the out come of surgery he probobly will never talk again:( . i hate how things in life are so damn hard.