You know the saying There is a reason Exes are Exes... Well... Mine just showed me why it's great to be his ex! It's even worse when you have children because it's not U who gets hurt but the children always in the end. Why do exhusbands always feel that the best way to hurt the ex-wife is through the kids? I'm not hurt for myself but more for my kids. They are the ones who have to deal with it. They are the ones who cry out for a father and always denied. I love this line when it comes to child support from an ex. U will never see a Dime of my money... Okay.. fine.. I won't... but then again who does it hurt.. not me.. the kids.. they are the ones who have to go without that little bit extra..maybe one month it's that dinner or maybe it's that birthday present that they really want and never get because well, the money isn't there. I don't know how many times I have had to tell my kids NO, because the money is just enough to cover the bills. I have had to cut my boy's hair for years because that $12 was just to much to come up with. $12 should be easy to come up with but when you have more than one child you have have to take the needest first and that is usually the youngest. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't feel I am. If I am someone let me know. Maybe I'm just getting to old to play the games the correct way.. I'm to old to be playing anyway. Exes love those headgames and I'm just not willing to play anymore with mine... I'll leave that for him to do.
