heres the deal, My ex and I have been split up for almost a year, it will be a year in AUG.. He cheated with a friend of mine that he only saw her pic and they started talkin then (he worked over the road) when he got back in town he moved right in with her. We were engaged to get married had everything lived together , we were together for three and half years. Well he left her and got married. He lives about 55 mins away from me now and I saw him about three weeks ago here in town at wal mart. He saw me and followed me and parked and got out and was like HEY, so I was nice and started talking to him we talked for about an hour. Then he went fishing down at the river here thats what he said he came down here for. Well him and my dad got a long great so I took my dad down there to go fishing with him cause I knew how much it ment to my dad. I didnt know that my dad had gave him his cell number TILL YESTERDAY. I wake up and Go outside and the frist thing I see is my Ex sitting in the yard talking with my dad, I WAS LIKE WHOOOAAA. Not something I want to wake up too. His excuse for coming down was like I wanted to go to the boat store here, and well where I live there is no BOAT STORE...... A lot of my friends thinks hes coming down to see me cause he misses me IM HOPING NOT.... Well after he left ( I didnt say but like three words to him) I got his number on the website for my cell phone bill and I txted him and said Look I do not appericate you coming to my house I would perfer you not come to my house, I didnt care for him and my dad hanging out doing what ever but this is MY HOUSE, and he said he respected that and understand So do you think I did the right thing? Cause even if he wanted met back I do not want to go back to that and hes married in the 1st place he shouldnt be at one of his exs house without his wife. Am I right or is he just visiting????