OK MY RANT FOR THE WEEK....raising my kids I always taught em, u earn the things u need. normal choirs don't count. that shit gets done regardless. and what momma says goes.. even today with them being 21 and 19 they still know.. SO... when a friend told me I had to pay my kid to clean their room, I wanted to punch her in the face.. u r a adult not them.. my kids knew you don't clean ur room, I will,,and I clean with a trashcan and broom. when did parents get scared of their ...kids,? I will beat ur ass and take the charge. my kids would never cuz they know, even now I would get em if they came at me all crosseyed.. so you ladies with kids, do anything to teach ur kids respect and how to earn a dollar, then you wont have to let em walk all over you. your the boss not them.. and if u disagree, well ill be laughing when ur visiting ur kid in prison