I will start with a few friendly disclaimers. You know, to save both of us some time.

1) If you are a jealous person, pass me by.
2) If you have unresolved mental issues, pass me by.
3) If you are looking for a "God fearing man", yeah.... that is not me. I always thought God should be someone you welcome, not fear.
3) If you are going to automatically doubt any new guy you meet because of an ex, pass me by. I am not your ex. Trust is earned. Not automatically dismissed. Yes, there are a lot off ***holes out there, but we are not all the same.
4) If you feed off of drama and gossip, yup, you got it right, keep going.
5) Do not message me asking me for money or help paying your bills!!! Me+Gold Diggers= not going to happen!!! I pay my bills, you can too.
6) If you drink every night of the week, or feel you need a cold one to start off your day every day, sober up, get help. It is out there and I wish you the best. Same goes for anyone doing coke, meth, heroin, and crack. I am 420 friendly, but that is it. AND DO NOT BOTHER WRITING ME ASKING IF I CAN GET YOU SOME SMOKE!!!! Yes I can, but no I will not.
7) If animals irritate you, I am not your guy. I do not have a house full of them or anything, but I do have pets, and they are part of my family.
8) If you constantly talk, talk, talk, and talk some more, I am sorry but this irritates me Conversations should be a 2 way thing. Of course I do not want someone who never says anything, but one of my biggest pet peeves is a chatty Cathy.
9) Last but not least. Very conservative religious people. I get along with pretty much anyone I come across. With that being said, I am not a christian, nor will I be converted to one. I will not be going to church with anyone on a Sunday morning unless it is for a wedding or a funeral.



Myself, I am 37 years old. I am 5 foot 8 inches tall. I weigh around 290 pounds. Yes, I am on the heavy side. I have long reddish blonde hair and blue eyes. I have a goatee and 6 tattoos. I do smoke, rarely drink,and I am 420 friendly as well. I have a 17 year old daugher. She does live with me. I am a die hard music fan (rock, classic rock, some metal, goth, alternative, shoe gaze... the list goes on and on!) I have a real soft spot for animals and animal rights. I consider myself a pretty liberal guy. I can be shy at times, and other times, not so much. I love bbqing (I am a DAMN good cook), going to the lake, fishing, hiking, camping, star gazing, road trips, or just hanging out at home watching some tv. I do not care for sports much. I could care less about Da Boys, Da Bears, Da Saints, or Da sport of football. Lol. I am a huge mma fan however.


If you feel inclined to email me, please have your life together. I am not looking to support anyone, be someones taxi cab, and for god sake, if you smoke, support your own habit, and if you smoke bud, have your life under control and supply your own. I smoke herb myself, but I am stable and have control over my life. I could care less if you work at Arby's or if you are a brain surgeon. I am just ready to meet someone who is an adult ya know.