if you have spoken or got to know my wife then she may have let you know at some point in conversation that she cant have children and that makes her feel so depressed around this time . i have told her it doesnt make you a mommy because you can give birth it makes you a mom in how you raise and take care of a baby and what kind of values you instill in them for there future i told her if we adopt she will be a great parent she loves kids and thats what counts there is so many woman that give birth and dint really care for there kids and it sucks when a woman whos dream was to have a baby of her own cant so im letting my wife know she is very special and we can adopt a lil one and that baby will have a great mother because you will love and care thats what counts sweetheart,you are a woman weather you can have kids or not a woman is a person who loves nertures and shows compasion for there family and believe me you are all woman and i love you so cheer up you are special:)