SnowyOwl's blog: "Not everyone is perfect"

created on 04/22/2008 | http://fubar.com/not-everyone-is-perfect/b209420

posted on 06/28/2009&nbs-07:00;@&nbs-07:00;07:06&nbs-07:00;pm

Does fubar have to be only a place for one to find a date ?
http://fubar.com/does-fubar-have-to-be-only-a-place-for-one-to-find-a-date/b209420-1039331

I have been a member of fubar for 3 years this fall, have had lots of fun but there is one thing that really bugs me. Why does fu have to be only for people that are looking for the one or dates?

I have made some very good friends on here, some have come and gone, but there are some that have stuck with me since i first joined. Yes when i first started out i was looking for dates and maybe the certain someone as to not feel lonely anymore. But i have discovered, that people don't have to be the one or a date to help out with not being so lonely. I have met some on here that get pissed off when i tell them to read my profile and they find out i am not available like they want. Well like i have learned this is not only a place to find the one or get lucky. this is a place where you can make friends and keep them , the ones that are still on my list of friends have been great to me and would not delete them for nothing, even if we don't chat very often or not at all.

The ones i have deleted were just not giving up, wanted more than i wanted to give and were not taking no for an answer or even understanding that i was married at one point, then that got annuled, was single a gain for a bit, and found the one man i know will be there and has been there during the marriage and helped me through my morning of my first true love. So what if he is on the other side of the world and we have to wait a while to be together, that will only make it that much sweeter when we do finally get together. 3 years is a long time to be patient and prove to one that they are not in this just to get out of their country. No one is that patient , no one could be that patient to help some one through pain of loss in both caisses that i have been through.

So just to say, THANKS!!!! to all the ones that have been there and have not given any grief about only being friends and have continued to be. Also know that people do not only go out to a bar just to meet someone, they do so to be with friends , have a good time and cut loose after a hard week, Or in this case a hard day!!!! Lots of luv to all and you all know, if you are reading this, who you are. Hugs and kisses to you all!!!!

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