ManEater's blog: "do people read these?"

soo we have all been on first dates, sometimes last ones too haha. but they are probably the most difficult to do. its awkward, sometimes very quiet, you dont kno what to wear, whose gonna pay, ad the biggest question of them all... WILL THERE BE SEX? for the guys, sex might be their goal, a relationship, maybe not. sometimes guys prefer to have sex on the first date just to see if the girl is a slut or not. other times, they just wana see if shes good in bed and if she may be a keeper. sometimes if you are a keeper, you are just a booty call. how to determine that: the way a man acts in bed gives a window to what he wants, for example, if he doesnt realy look at ur face or kiss you, he prolly only wants a booty call, if ur any good. the other way around, HE LIKE A LOT !!! oh and if you fuck in the car, yea u can forget it, ur a slut, but theres nothing wrong with that. for the girls, now if we have sex on a first date we are ALL SLUTS right?? WRONG !! i know personally, i will have sex on a first date, but i wait for the guy to make the move. its how i know what the guy wants out of this. now other girls, they will beat around the bush, try to be respectable, but you can be respected and have sex too ! chyea you can. let him pay, open the door, give u a kiss at ur front door, if you like, you take him in. see where it goes. the way he approaches the first move to sex is KEY. if he goes right for the pants, hes a horny bastard, shirt first, you may have a keeper. the point is, sex on a first date is typical, so dont be ashamed. girls and boys, just do what you feel, cuz you never know, you might be thinking the same as ur partner and that might be your soul mate !!

for the past couple months a lot has been on my mind. luckily the guy i will talk about in this blog does not have cherry tap, therefore i can truly speak my mind HAHAHAHA btw i want feedback people cuz i am way confused so i was seeing this guy over the summer, from like april til september when he left for school. now... when he left for school all i said to him was "dont hurt my feelings" thinking that maybe hed get the idea right? let me give u a background... we graduated high school together, never really talked, then we hung out at a party, had sex, and there was our relationship.... that whole summer was filled with dates, parties, and sex. mostly sex. i kinda felt used but when i approached him with the thought he said never explained to me why and i felt convinced that he genuinely liked me. back to the problem: so hes at schoool. he called me a couple times, but we havent really kept in contact, i mean he is a deans list student with a very rough academic curriculum, so should i expect him not to talk to me? when he came home he called me, of course we hung out, and had sex. but other than that, i havent really talked to him. my problem is, i still like this kid. although ive been going to parties, hooking up with guys, no sex involved, dating guys, no sex involved, i find myself comparing them to HIM. and then i wonder, is he doing the same thing? or maybe he has another girl at school? i just don't kno what to do. i try to talk to him and i freeze up. guys: i would like to know if this was you, as the male, what would you be doing in this situaion? girls: am i a fool ????