we all know men are visual creatures. we're hardwired that way. one gauge of mans emotional maturity and stability is where he goes after he sees something that he likes. does he try to get to know the person behind the pretty face? does he try and touch her mind to see if they are compatible. does she laugh his jokes. does her heart reach out to him when he stumbles over a word. (i know i am jumping back and forth on this, but thats the way my mind is working right now.) does she smile when he makes a goofy face. does she feel the need to try and get physically closer to him when they are just sitting and talking. does she call and say i just needed to hear ur voice. if the man has explored who the woman is, after he has been initially attracted to her because of her physical attributes, if he has smelled the sweetness of her soul, if he has seen the brilliance of her mind, if he has been overwhelmed by the warmness of her heart, if he has explored and touched her mind, spirit and heart, then all of what i described as her response to him will be true, including overwhelming desire for him physically, because she can finally give herself to him completely, without reservation, without hesitation, without doubt...i want it all.
I'd just like to add...
Looks are very important, no question. Physical desire is very important, no question. One of the the most sobering things that I have had to learn is that what I am attracted to will, in many cases, not be attracted to me, and visa versa. Understanding that fact explains why our searches seem so long and frustrating, considering there millions of good and wonderful people out there. Having said that...Some men want to love a 1000 different woman, I love one woman a 1000 different ways...
