Bubbles's blog: "Me"

First of all, this did not happen on fubar, it happened on Facebook.

Apparently I was deleted off a "friend's" friend list. I wasn't sure how it happened, so I sent him another friend request with a message. Just a quick little "hey, how did we become unfriended? Lol."  I think I found the reason. I went to check the status of my request and it still says awaiting comfirmation. I looked at his recent posts and found a status that read "Will be deleting friends that aren't really friends."

....

Ouch. That really hurt. I consider him my friend. Yes, he is good friends with Eric (my recent ex) but Eric and I have remained friends. And this guy always has said he's considered me one of the guys, cause I always ended up being the only girls in the group of guys. So I don' quite understand what's going on. He still has the mutual friends I do on his list: my brother and his wife, Eric, my bff Kelly (I suspect Kelly because he's got a thing for her).. but not me. So I sent him another message with his status in quotes and asked him if this was the reason we aren't friends on there anymore. Should I have done so?

2 of the other guys from the group who I had on my friends list still have me on theirs. Am I missing something?

I just hope the answer isn't "oh, you were my best friend's gf and aren't anymore." That's bullshit because we've had to deal with HIS ex hanging around even though NO ONE in the group likes her, except him, and she has openly badmouthed me when I've done nothing but been civil with her. (That's a long story in it's own right. Some of you know the story of Ana. Don't ask me if you don't know.)