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The past few days my teenage daughter(who just turned 13), just broke up with a boy. Now, I told her a little bit of what to expect..u know, hurt, anger, hurt, a little drama(considering the age, now), and..well u get my drift. I also told her how to handle this sort of thing, which comes from experience. Lord knows, I've gone thru that cycle, & embarrassed myself a bit with the drama thing..but that's a whole other blog. The last 2 days, she's actually listened to me as she sees this all unfold. Now given her age, she doesn't come out & say, "Oh Mom, u were so right, Thank You"...Wait I have to stop laughing at that thought.....
Ok, she comes out & "pounds it"...if that's the right term..lmao. Her own little way of saying thank you to me(& don't burst my bubble on this one, let me have my moment)..At least she still comes to me. I didn't just tell her what you're supposed to tell a child from a parent about this sort of thing, I told her the truth. Better to break up with someone that cheat on them, better to walk away when they're in an argumentive mood..no matter what they say. For the most part, ppl do get sick of arguing by themselves. I was so proud when she opened her door(which is pretty much shut non stop nowadays)heard a growl...because she walked away from what someone said, instead of just striking back & getting herself in more pain.
I am proud of my daughter!!!! I tell her that even though she always asks why..I tell her, she just says "ok" like I'm a crazy person..I am, but please don't tell her that:D. I just feel so blessed to have her in my life, not just because she's my daughter, but an awesome kid..period.
