Cunnilingus Licking & Eating Pussy - Part 2
Preparing for Cunnilingus
Receiving It
Many women are conscious of the way they taste and smell to their partner. There are also a good number of men who are borderline as to whether they like the taste and smell of a woman. If you know your partner has a preference one way or another, it's a good idea to indulge it. If you're not sure, you should take some extra steps to make sure that your lover gets as positive an experience as possible. The rewards are obvious.
A thorough cleaning is a must. You may also want to carefully dab a little perfume on your inner thighs. Be very careful not to get any into the vagina as this can be very painful. Just a hint of a good smell on the way in is all they'll need to reach the promised land.
Make sure your partner knows that how much you'll enjoy it and how hot it gets you. There's nothing better than an eager partner. Tell them how good they are at it. Mention their "silver tongue", oral stamina or perfect technique for encouragement both before your session and during its early stages.
Giving It
Depending on your preferences, you'll probably want to do something to get your partner cleaned up before the session. A shower or bath is preferable, but even a couple of minutes in a pool or hot tub can do the job nicely.
Since many women are self conscious about their taste and smell, make sure you tell them how much you love her taste. Tell her your mouth is watering at the very thought. Mention how much you love to lick away at her clit. The more comfortable she feels about having you go down on her, the more relaxed she'll be. It's much easier for a woman to orgasm when she's relaxed.
Before heading for the promised land, make sure that your body is positioned to that you can be comfortable there for 10-15 minutes. Avoid Twister like positions where your whole body is straining to keep you balanced. Also, try to avoid straining your neck too much, as this can get uncomfortable very quickly. Since women need fairly constant stimulation, you don't want to be repositioning every couple of minutes.
How to Perform Cunnilingus
Most women love receiving it; all claims to the contrary, few men love giving it. I know one man who absolutely refuses to perform cunnilingus on his girlfriend. "It tastes like fish," he says, wrinkling his nose, "and it takes her too long to come." Another friend, a gentleman who expects fellatio on a weekly basis, tells me he doesn't have to perform cunnilingus on his wife because he's able to give her orgasms during intercourse. Some women won't consider dating a man if he refuses to go down on her. "I always make sure to ask for cunnilingus the first time we get naked," says another friend. "That way if he says no, I can stop dating him before we get too serious. I'm not going to spend my life giving and never receiving!" Men complain that it takes too long, is uncomfortable and tastes funny. Women complain that they don't get it as often as they'd like, and when they do get it, the guy doesn't usually do it right. Ah, cunnilingus: the relationship deal breaker.
The ABC's of Cunnilingus
While every body is different, a few basic things remain the same:
Share a shower together before you begin so neither of you have to worry about unpleasant tastes or odors.
Ask your partner what she likes. At the very least, she can say things like "harder" or "slower" or "more circles."
Fill your own mouth with saliva first. Never touch or lick the clitoris with a dry finger or tongue.
Know where the clitoris is but don't dive straight for it. First try gentle kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva.
Tell her how good she looks, smells and tastes.
Think variety. If you repeat the same motion, your partner becomes temporarily insensitive to it, so be sure to vary your stimulation.
Let your hands roam. As she becomes more aroused, insert a finger or two. Once she is highly aroused, you can stimulate the clitoris more directly.
Gentle insertion of a finger into the anus can send a woman into paroxysms of delight. If she doesn't like it, she'll tell you soon enough.
Continue to fondle and hold her as she orgasms and after.
The clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire penis. Be gentle.
Unlike men, many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm. Keep it going until she begs you to stop.
These suggestions should give you a start, but experiment and see what you and your partner enjoy. The greatest tip of all is to relax and enjoy yourself. Enthusiasm goes further than even the best of techniques!
Muff Diving Made Easy
Again, every body is different. However, some variation on the following plan should work wonders.
Set the scene with candles, fresh flowers, incense, soft music... whatever she prefers. Your thoughtfulness will surprise and delight her.
Make sure she's comfortable. Encourage her to recline on the bed. Place a few pillows behind her head. Make sure she isn't cold.
Don't dive directly for the muff; spend some time kissing her lips, shoulders, breasts and belly. Stroke her lightly with your fingertips. Tell her how beautiful she is. Move down between her legs and gently kiss, blow, stroke and nibble her belly, inner thighs and hips.
When she's breathing heavily, gently spread her legs and kiss her pubic mound. Nuzzle around for a few minutes, spending time with the different parts of her vulva. Pay attention to her breathing; when she breathes faster, she's enjoying herself more. Take note of what she likes and repeat it.
When she sounds highly aroused--she may be wiggling around a bit, as well--spread her labia and gently kiss and tongue her clitoris. Don't pry the clitoral hood back unless she instructs you too--the clitoris is highly sensitive.
Lick and nuzzle the entire area: vaginal opening, perineum, inner labia and clitoris. If she says or otherwise indicates that she particularly likes what you're doing, spend a little time there. But not too much time--the vulva can become desensitized very quickly.
Wrap your arms around her hips, cupping her buttocks, and get to work on her clitoris. Apply firm pressure with the tip of your tongue in a circular motion. Be patient: you might be here awhile. If she's not responding to the clitoral pressure you're exerting, try some variations. Try tracing the letters of the alphabet across her genitals and clitoris. Try inserting your tongue into her vagina (some women dislike this intensely, so pay attention to her response or just ask her if she likes it). Vary speed, pressure and intensity. Try inserting your fingers or a sex toy into her vagina or anus. Be creative.
When you hear rapid heavy breathing and feel her body start to tense up, she's really enjoying the stimulation you're giving her. Whatever you do, don't stop doing what you're doing. She's about to have an orgasm.
Continue to stimulate and hold her while she climaxes. Be warned: women have much longer orgasms than men ... and can experience waves of orgasms that last several minutes. Let her enjoy herself and continue to stimulate her until she lets you know you can stop.
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