Nemo's blog: "Observations"

Two conversations over the course of the day really stuck out to me and I had to share my observations. I was talking with one of my friends and she mentioned a problem relationship of her friends. Now i listened and she commented about the "bad boys" that keep changing in a never ending cycle with this friend of hers. We kept on talking about this and it was very interesting to hear from a woman about the draw of a "bad boy." Next i had another conversation about how this someone was having issues with a guy. A first hand account and the realization that he was bad news in a box. This got me started thinking and thus this blog. Why the hell do women know the bad boy is bad and still go to them like a moth to a flame? I am sure that plenty of women have been burned by a bad boy type but they still go after them. Are the normal guys that boring to be around that you cant stand considering a healthy, long-term relationship with one of us? I may not be the next hottest guy since Brad Pit or whom ever but I know i'm not Quasimodo. I'm smart, funny, and i try damn hard to make the person I am with happy. As an example of a nice guy, do yourself a favor and start looking for one instead of the bad boy, I guarantee you will find out that were not as boring as you may seem and far more likely to be long-term candidates if you can just do a little searching beyond the cover of our book. See you all next week as I continue my Observations ...