Weather we realize it or not our children learn from watching us. Everything that we do they see everything we say they hear. Even when they act like they are not listening they hear us. That is the funny thing about kids we never know what they are actually hearing until it is to late sometimes, and then we wonder why they are growing up so fast. We as parents know are kids more than anyone else and they need to know that we are there for them no matter what and that they can come and talk to us know matter what.
We need to be there for our children and love and nurture them and we need to be there best friends. We need to let the children of the world know that they can come to use no matter what there problem is. Even if we do not like what they are going to say we need to stay calm and talk to them. Do we really need to yell at our kids all the time every time they do something that we do not approve of? What are we teaching our children if we yell at them all the time? We are teaching them to yell right back and then we get mad at them for raising there voice, When in all actualality they are just doing what they have seen us do so many times.
Weather we realize it or not our children do hear and see what we do and they do learn by watching us. So if we have some things in our life to change we should change them and tell our children why we needed to change them and why we are not doing what we use to do anymore. They need to know that there is love in the home and there will always bne love in the home no matter what. And that they always have someone to talk to.
Our children may do things we have never done and we will not know how to deal with the situation But we need to ask us deep down in our hearts have we ever thought about doing it? (whatever it may be that they have done)
But either way us as parents need to handle it calmly. Weather we realize it or not our children learn from watching and listening to us. So when we say something and tell our kids something and they say back to us (well you would not do it, so why should I ) Is is really fair to tell our kids to do something that we ourselves would not do? We need to set the example for our children and we need to be good influences on them and we need to teach them while they are young and can be taught. After all they are the future of the world and the universe and someday one of them may be govenor or president and we need to do our best to teach them so they can be prepared. Life is hard enough and mean enough.
Children need to know that home is there safty zone and that home is where they can talk about anything and not get judge for it. They are the future.
Children are precious and they are a gift from God and we need to raise them the best we can and we need to let them know that they can be safe and that we are there for them.
