Anhkah Beloved Consort of Angels's blog: "cherry tap"

Its looking like I won't be able to be around as much after the move. I checked into getting the internet turned on in my new place and it looks like its going to be over a hundred bucks, so it might have to wait. I know to a lot of people that might now seem like much, but my budget is very low right now. Once I get back to school and get my financial aid, I might be able to do more but I'll have to wait and see.

Today someone friended me who's request I probably should not have accepted, and I soon afterwards regretted. The mistake was corrected. His profile said nothing about any interest other than drinking (beer specifically) and having sex. Nonetheless I allowed him the chance to be friends and he pretty much just walked all over it.

I pointed out to him that there is absolutely nothing in my profile to indicate that being promiscuous with total strangers is in any way an interest of mine on here. This was done by asking him if he saw anything in my profile to indicate in any way that I was a rampant sex fiend. He answered, no. Then he proceeded to go on asking why I did not want to have "alittle fun", obviously his oh so witty euphemism for sex. I encouraged him to elaborate... to explain himself... just in case the "alittle fun" he was talking about was not something entirely inappropriate with which to proposition someone he just met.

I'm not entirely sure why I found it so annoying. We have a lot of fun little surveys that come across the bulletin board of "Would you do me?" and the like. Perhaps it was because he so blatantly disregarded any other value a person might have other than of sexual service specifically to him.

Maybe eventually I will want to have "alittle fun" but even if that day comes, I highly doubt I'll advertise it here. Furthermore, I most definately know... it won't be with him.

I just wanted to let that out of my head so it didn't bounce around in there polluting my dreams. Pretty much everyone else here I've met have been truly wonderful people who've enriched my life with their presence and I wouldn't trade a one of them for anything. However, if I see a profile like that again and they even speak to me, I will most likely immediately block them. There is so much more to each person than their potential as a meat doll and I see no point in giving attention to any who cannot see that.

I've seen posts that say if someone fans you, you should fan them back. In good conscience I can't fan someone who has nothing stashed. If I fan someone I want to have a good reason to come back to their page. I want to find jokes, vids, surveys, and/or lots of art. Those whom I fan are very special and have worked very hard to earn it.

Here is what I like to see in a profile: Location - Just put your zip code in. It only shows the city. Something ... anything! ... about you. I don't care what it is. At least five words. Comments - html comments enabled. A picture - It doesn't have to be you. Just something you like that shows in your profile view. If you have more than three, please put the rest into your stash for the sake of page load speed. Music - Video or Track, preferably with an off switch. Just one. Please put the rest of your videos and tracks in your stash. Background - Not necessary, but a nice touch. This is only what I look for on the profile page itself and has nothing to do with the pictures in your photos.

WOULD YOU LIKE TO WIN a blast?

Contest starts at 2 pm Cherry Tap Time (PST) April 20th (That's 5pm EST)

& ends April 27th.

1st place - 1 month blast

2nd place - 1 week blast

3rd place - 3 day blast

The winners will be determined by the number of comments, unless there's a tie, then the number of rates will come into Effect.

Please private message me the link to the photo you would like me to rip (or I'll rip your default.) Please do not leave comments in the bulletins.

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♥ Jade ♥

@ CherryTAP

(repost of original by '♥ Jade ♥ - Enter my Blast Contest - See Blog for Details' on '2007-04-15 01:03:27') (repost of original by 'Achilles' on '2007-04-15 01:04:59')

My hair is in a contest. Look for it in bulletins if you're interested and/or want to enter and/or vote.

Woot, WOOT!! My salutes are approved :D

Finally with a little help figured out how to submit a pic to be a salute, but it was denied. :( oh well, better luck next time I guess

I want to watch them all! How else can I tell if I like them? Rock & Metal are always the best for music vids, though I have on occasion been in the mood to listen to some nice mellow country and on even rarer occasions to enjoy a hot rap. But.... I can't play vids when the tv is on or someone else is watching or listening to something else, so all these great vids have to wait. *sigh* I need more hours in the day! lol

Almost forgot... I always rate blogs! I totally respect anyone who takes the time to sit down and write something here for us.