Anhkah Beloved Consort of Angels's blog: "cherry tap"

Today someone friended me who's request I probably should not have accepted, and I soon afterwards regretted. The mistake was corrected. His profile said nothing about any interest other than drinking (beer specifically) and having sex. Nonetheless I allowed him the chance to be friends and he pretty much just walked all over it.

I pointed out to him that there is absolutely nothing in my profile to indicate that being promiscuous with total strangers is in any way an interest of mine on here. This was done by asking him if he saw anything in my profile to indicate in any way that I was a rampant sex fiend. He answered, no. Then he proceeded to go on asking why I did not want to have "alittle fun", obviously his oh so witty euphemism for sex. I encouraged him to elaborate... to explain himself... just in case the "alittle fun" he was talking about was not something entirely inappropriate with which to proposition someone he just met.

I'm not entirely sure why I found it so annoying. We have a lot of fun little surveys that come across the bulletin board of "Would you do me?" and the like. Perhaps it was because he so blatantly disregarded any other value a person might have other than of sexual service specifically to him.

Maybe eventually I will want to have "alittle fun" but even if that day comes, I highly doubt I'll advertise it here. Furthermore, I most definately know... it won't be with him.

I just wanted to let that out of my head so it didn't bounce around in there polluting my dreams. Pretty much everyone else here I've met have been truly wonderful people who've enriched my life with their presence and I wouldn't trade a one of them for anything. However, if I see a profile like that again and they even speak to me, I will most likely immediately block them. There is so much more to each person than their potential as a meat doll and I see no point in giving attention to any who cannot see that.