Due to the change of the BarTab I decided to change my BarTab settings to "For Me". It was interesting see who of my friends created a new blog, uploaded a photo or stash, but it simply not my business and interest to see who left a comment for someone I dont even know amd all these mumm votings and comments.
I am sorry, if it takes longer from now on for me to find out that someone has new stuff up, but there seems not to be any option to see only this.
If there is something you want me to see at once, feel free to send me a message about it.