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| created @ 05/21/2007 06:15 am |
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| My ex is a KJ, which means he works weekend nights. He takes our children, ages 8 and 18 months, every other weekend. On his weekends, he has his son from a previous marriage (age 12) watching my children. Altho I love his son and think he's a good kid, I do not think he is responsible enough to take care of my children, the 18 month old is a MAJOR handful, and my daughter calls me often asking me to come get her. When I do, it irritates my ex, and when I don't, I feel horrible. My ex is unwilling to look for a different type of job in order to be there for his children, but I don't want to take them fully away from him. I believe they need to know and love thier father (as well as older brother and extended family). It also allows me to have a bit of "me" time, when he has them, but I'm getting to the point where I really don't think they need to be there if he isn't. Should I modify the visitation, or should I let it go as it is, and just be available in case of emergency? |
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