I think the worst part of getting out of a major relationship is the flipping and flopping your head goes through while trying to work things out.
One minute you're seeing things with incredible clarity and know exactly where you need to be. Then something happens... can't my finger on what, and everything becomes as muddled as ever. These periods seem to last longer than the clarity.
This of course makes the healing process last much longer than necessary. Am I alone in feeling this way or is this a common thing?
