yes, i'm gonna just generalize and say all of yuns! why is it a trend to lead women on and get them head over heels and then say, "oh, i like our friendship, and who knows what the future holds, but i'm gonna go fuck an old friend of mine this week, sometime!" this is the most recent assholish thing done to me by a guy....but i've heard this one b4! i even did this the "right" way...i took my time, didn't jump into anything at all. i have spent countless hours talking to him, enjoying every minute! he plays the bass and numerous other instruments for me (i find this very entertaining and i love to watch ppl play)! he made me think, he challenged my opinions, he made me feel special...just to tell me that we r just friends! i can handle that part, that's what we've been for almost a year...but it's the part he's gonna go fuck someone else...then we'll quit talkin' bc he's moved on...there isn't much to do, other than sit back and see what he does, maybe it's a jealousy/cold-feet tactic...wants to see if i'll fight for him (i won't, if he doesn't wanna be w me, then he should go find happiness elsewhere), or it's a push away to keep the walls up and his heart guarded! i don't want anything more than a commitment, we don't live together--we are 20 minutes apart driving...so we do a lot of our talking on IM...i don't wanna give up my space and he doesn't wanna give up his! that's fine, just don't fuck someone else...i'm not...who knows how it'll all turn out, but i don't wanna deal w the emotional rollercoaster i've been on!
