TIPS ON USING YOUR VIBRATOR
This section is designed to give information for successful vibrator use because they usually don't come with instructions and most people are too embarrassed to discuss it with friends, especially if they are a first-time user or can't get aroused. A very important rule to remember is that there is no absolute right or wrong way to use a vibrator.....Only what feels good and relaxes you or gets you euphoric.
If you don't even know where to begin or want new ideas then you have come to the right place. We will touch on solo play as well as couple play and more:
Step 1: Do what feels good - This is to be emphasized since everyone's body is different.
Step 2: Set aside some relaxing time- Make sure you have some time set aside, especially when learning how to use the vibrator. Don't do this if you have to be somewhere and will have to stop within an hour. One who is experienced will know how long it will take and may be able to pleasure themselves fairly quickly but for first-timers it is important to have at least an hour set aside. Also different moods that you are will affect how fast you may pleasure yourself so try to be aware of how you are feeling at the current time.
Step 3: Relax, Relax, Relax: It is important to have a relaxing atmosphere, whether you are in a quiet place or have soothing music playing. Sometimes it is helpful to have a relaxing bubble bath or hot shower before beginning to play. If you are into more naughty play, you can read a sexy novel prior to playing or look at some erotica or watch an adult movie. Just make sure you are relaxed.
Step 4: Explore your body - It is helpful to not just start right in at the genitals or turn on the vibe. First use your hands and touch your body lightly all over, passing over your breasts, stomach, legs and vagina/penis. Try to relax more and more as you glide over your body. After a few minutes or when you are ready, turn the vibe on the slowest level (if it has different speeds) and go through the same motions, gliding the massager all over your body and not leaving it in one place.
Step 5: Lubrication- It is helpful to have lubrication and to apply a generous amount to your genitals, vibe, hand(s), fingers be inserting or rubbing against your body
Step 6: Vibrator to Genitals:
For Women: Start by laying in bed or on a couch in a comfortable position with your clothes off. It can be helpful to sit in a "reading position with the pillows behind your head and your legs bent. Begin by touching your clit with the vibrator and apply more as much pressure as feels good. Rub it between your vaginal lips in a back and fourth motion. If you have a vibrator that is penetrative, insert it into your vagina slowly. Wiggle the vibrator around and explore your vagina. Experiment with different depths of penetration. Hold the vibe at the opening of your vagina. Use very shallow motion in dipping just the tip of the vibrator into your vagina and then pulling out slowly. You can also experiment with twisting the vibrator around in your vagina to hit all the different spots.
When and if you would like, you can increase the speed but make sure to not overdo it. If you feel dizzy or it begins to hurt in any way, remove the vibrator or reduce the speed. As you play, you can use dipping motions of "in and out" as well as continuing to turn the vibe. Pay attention to the areas the feel more sensitive when the vibe rubs those areas.
You can become adventuresome and try different positions. You can straddle the vibrator as well as placing the vibe on your genitals and squeezing your thighs and butt cheeks together followed by a release. This can cause a sensual feeling also known as an erotic buildup. You can lay still just holding it against your clit or you can move your hips sort of riding it like you would a partner. You can also use your hands, fingers or other adult toys while you are using the vibrator to stimulate yourself.
For Men: Believe it or not, men also use vibrators effectively too. For you men, follow the steps above and then try lightly massaging the vibrator down the shaft of your penis. You can also lightly press it against and between your testicles. Stroke your penis and lightly squeeze your testicles. You can also masturbate like usual and see if the vibrations enhance your experience. If you're using a vibrating sleeve, make sure you use a good amount of lube so you don't rub yourself raw from the thrusting motion.
Step 7: Different Vibes for Different Folks: There are many types of vibrators out there and each one may be more favorable to one person while another may be more favorable to you. Many people own multiple vibrators and depending on their mood will decide which one they use.
