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I need to rant for a minute so here goes... Quite often, the problems we have with our significant other, parents, siblings, friends, etc., don’t really have anything to do with them at all. Many of the problems we think we have with them, we subconsciously created in our own mind. Maybe they did something in the past that touched on one of our fears, nerves, or insecurities. Or maybe they didn't do something that we expected them to do. Maybe we were just having a bad day. It Happens People! In either scenario, problems like these are not about the other person, they’re about ourselves and that’s okay. It simply means these little predicaments will be easier to solve. We are, after all, in charge of our own decisions, actions, and reactions. We get to decide whether we want to keep our head cluttered with events from the past, or instead open our minds to the positive realities unfolding in front of us. All we need is the willingness to look at things a little differently, to let go of ‘what was’ and ‘what should have been,’ and instead focus our energy on ‘what is’ and ‘what could be possible.’ Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. It will never happen! Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing!!!
