Ok, time to vent y'all :
I keep getting messages from people lightening their friend's list load. That's cool, I don't mind being deleted, but sometimes the reasoning is lame...and childish if not hurtful.
Why should our 'friendship' depend on whether or not I talk to YOU first? Is that how you are with all of your friends? The only way you and your homies get to know eachother is if THEY open the lines of conversation first and are incredibly aggressive with you? If so, when are you going to grow up and join the real world, hmm?
I remember having to do that for the little KIDS I would tutor after school awhile back. Some of them were SO shy, I had to MAKE a kid go up to another and say 'Hi'.(That's all it takes! Just fvcking say "Hi".) Now I'm realizing how much that hindered them maybe, I should've been like : "Bobby, I know it's hard, but if you want to be friends with Billy, why don't you go up to him and ask him what's going on?" Because I was creating a cycle of fear and retardedness.
And it kind of hurts. I'm not worth the energy it takes to say "hey gal, what's going on?" If I'm not all up on your jock, I'm worthless to you?
I know for a fact that if anyone approaches me and says hello, I'm not going to ignore them.
Just because I'm not talking to you and you're online, does not mean I don't want to be friends with you. It means I don't know you're there, you haven't said "hello" either, or you're a scared little baby waiting for everyone to do everything for you, so please don't come at me like I'm the one fvcking up.
IT'S A TWO WAY STREET PEOPLE!+
