Definitions
Hello all O.K. I will be posting a few things that I think are important in understanding me. This leads most definitely to definitions. Like most Dominants I have the bad habit of thinking that the world revolves around me - though I really know it doesn't! I do have the bad habit of redefining words for my own use, so let’s give you some of my definitions.
First is Sadist - I warp this word in not just pain, but in trying to get all of a subs Nerve endings to fire off at the same time to overload their brain. This can include pain, most it includes a lot different sensations
boi - A boi is defined as a masculine identified submissive. This is independent of their birth gender
gurl - A gurl is defined as a feminine identified submissive. Again this is independent of birth gender.
boi & gurl - both of these submissives are treated more like the Classical Fostering system were a rich noble took a common but bright youngster as companion, sex partner, and prodigy.
slave - A slave is of any gender and is usually treated as object to be used by their Master or Mistress.
Master/Mistress - Are Dominants who keep very little emotional investment in their slaves or property. I have found that as an emotional relationship develops between Master/Mistress and slave they have a harder and harder to use them especially in BDSM play.
Daddy - Daddies tend to have more of an emotional attachment to their boi and/or gurls. The more emotional the relationship get the more intense play gets!
Daddy/son & Daddy/daughter - With my experience in BDSM these relationships Daddy/son and Daddy/daughter usually have more to do with age play then other forms of BDSM. My experience with Daddy/son tends to have the son playing the part of a toddler still in diapers (I am not into the diaper fetish). And the Daddy/daughter tends to have the daughter being in the tween ages (10 through 13 - just pre-puberty)
That is about it for definitions I do hope this will help anyone when we chat and if you have any questions just drop me a note.
Daddy Bear Tezer