DaddyTezer's blog: "Daddy Bear's play time"

I will be rather honest I am not sure how many post will make it into this Blog, but, I will try to give a fair account of my Play Times.

I guess the correct place to start is with the basics.  I am a Dominant Married White Man.  I live with my wife/gurl in central N.J. USA.  Before living here I lived in the south west with my wife/gurl and live in boi.  We had a workable 3 some though he was gay and had no interest in woman.  I am a middle of the road Bisexual -this means I need both male and female in my play life, in the bedroom, and in my heart.  When we moved back to NJ my live in boi decided to stay with his family in the Midwest!

I have 18+ years as a Mast and a Daddy, I prefer Daddy over any other honorific.  I have experience with the entire spectrum of BDSM, and am able to play with most people at most levels from vanilla, to new bie, to old guard, to edge players.  I am very much into helping people who want to explore themselves, their fantasies, their fetishes, and their submission.

So drop me a note, lets chat and with a little trust an open mind, I maybe be able to show you a whole new side of yourself and the world you may enjoy to be a part of.

Daddy Bear Tezer

Definitions

Hello all O.K. I will be posting a few things that I think are important in understanding me.  This leads most definitely to definitions.  Like most Dominants I have the bad habit of thinking that the world revolves around me - though I really know it doesn't!  I do have the bad habit of redefining words for my own use, so let’s give you some of my definitions.

First is Sadist - I warp this word in not just pain, but in trying to get all of a subs Nerve endings to fire off at the same time to overload their brain.  This can include pain, most it includes a lot different sensations

boi - A boi is defined as a masculine identified submissive.  This is independent of their birth gender

gurl - A gurl is defined as a feminine identified submissive. Again this is independent of birth gender.

boi & gurl - both of these submissives are treated more like the Classical Fostering system were a rich noble took a common but bright youngster as companion, sex partner, and prodigy.

slave - A slave is of any gender and is usually treated as object to be used by their Master or Mistress.

Master/Mistress - Are Dominants who keep very little emotional investment in their slaves or property.  I have found that as an emotional relationship develops between Master/Mistress and slave they have a harder and harder to use them especially in BDSM play.

Daddy - Daddies tend to have more of an emotional attachment to their boi and/or gurls.  The more emotional the relationship get the more intense play gets!

Daddy/son & Daddy/daughter - With my experience in BDSM these relationships Daddy/son and Daddy/daughter usually have more to do with age play then other forms of BDSM.  My experience with Daddy/son tends to have the son playing the part of a toddler still in diapers (I am not into the diaper fetish).  And the Daddy/daughter tends to have the daughter being in the tween ages (10 through 13 - just pre-puberty)

That is about it for definitions I do hope this will help anyone when we chat and if you have any questions just drop me a note.

Daddy Bear Tezer

For those of you who are Bisexual I believe you will understand this piece very well.  For those who are not I do hope it will help you to understand a little of what we Bisexuals sometime go through.  ENJOY:

The scent is usual heady as I caress the skin, soft and supple.  The nipples get firm under the ministrations of my lips teeth, and tongue.  I stroke the thighs, and then caress them, and then finally I lightly dig my nails in and scratch them.  All of these things elicit the reaction that I want, my lover’s heart beats faster, and I can hear it through their chest.  There breath becomes fast and labored with excitement.  There chest starts to heave, I know they are excited, as I am hard and ready for the passion that I have brought to a boil, but yet I know in my soul that this is not what I need.  Yes it will be release for the both of us, but not the release I need.

   This is cause lover under my caress, the lover whom I will be in a moment fully inside is my wife!  Don’t get me wrong this usually gets me so hard that I ache for release and passion of our lovemaking.  But, I know in my soul that this is not what I need tonight, it will be an empty release.  The all the passion is here, all the love I have for her, but this is not what I need.

   What I need is my boi!  What I need in my sense is masculine not feminine.  I don’t need the scent of her.  I need his musky scent. His firmness not her softness.  It is a most awful dilemma, to make love with her when it is him I need.

   It hurts as much as it helps, a bittersweet moment, a reminder to my soul of what I need not what I have.  If you are not bi u cannot understand this dilemma, all I can hope for is the understanding that may come from this.  If you are bi then I can gain the empathy of what I am saying. To have one sex when you need the other.  To make love to some one you truly love and not be totally satisfied, and long for what is not there.  A bittersweet dilemma…

I do hope you enjoyed this

Daddy Bear Tezer