Finally!! Still neet to use a crutch for long walks but doing good!!!! Can move the elbow and shoulder without pain. Still can't pick up anything with it yet. The tailbone on the other hand is really a pain in the, well you know. I mean there's not more I can do but sit on it!!! In the last month my Princess turned 5, my jock turned 11. My eldest who I used to think was my closest child, we go to all the hockey games, we used to talk about everything! But recently, I discovered he's having sex and smoking pot. Used the excuse I did it when I was his age!!!! I lived in AK at the time, it's legal there!!!!! He is also failing 2 classes he is good at! No wonder right!!! Girls and pot aren't good for school!!! It was all so upsetting because he has been tested and is gifted, Been reading since he was 2 1/2. One of my dearest friends told me this morning that, a great athlete wont be great if they have no drive! He should know he is a great athlete. He also told me that just because you have the brains you may not have the desire to use them. Just like Grandpa always said, "You can lead a horse to water, but not make them drink!" I took my son to a counselor, he has assured me no more pot. I threatened to go to the parents of his best friends and GF. I also grounded him, except for Prom because everything was finalized. I also took away his Iphone and am making him use his old fone till his grades are passable. I talked to his teachers about some things he can do to improve. I an not going to blame me for being to lenient. I blame him for not making better choices.