We, all, look for the love of our lives. We, all, go into a relationship hoping that this person is the one. Sometimes that person is the one we have been looking for, and we live "happily ever after," but what about the people we go through that aren't meant for us. We endure so much pain, and at many times, we ask ourselves for what. We want to give up on love, the opposite sex, and for some our own lives. We lose ourselves in the pain and agony, that we forget so many of the more important things in life. Yes, love hurts. You can never argue with that. We argue and fight with that person trying to hold on to them. What are we fighting for? We fight, honestly, under our own delisions that this person is the special one. We let the feeling of loneliness cloud our better judgement of the people we choose. This is why we look back at our past wondering why we dated certain people. We wish that we could rewind time and take back our past. First, we need to realize without the bad things happening to us, we wouldn't be the person that we are. So never regret what you have done, you have learned an important lesson from it. Second, if you have to fight with someone to stay a couple, you are fighting for something that isn't yours in the first place. Now don't mistake a rough patch for a fight because no relationship is perfect. Those rough patches bring you two closer together. The last thing is stop forcing love on yourself. We are all guilty of giving in and settling for people because we are lonely. Remember a few things about the people you pick and should realize. If you meet them at the bar or club, don't be surprised when they drink way too much or go out too much. Yes, not all people that are at the clubs and bars, but realize there is that risk you are taking. What we should do is screen the people that peak our interest. Make sure that you are getting what you want in a person. Yes, no one is perfect but make sure you aren't overlooking too many things. Just remember, you deserve the best and don't settle for anything less then that.
Ant
