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Love ,

Love can be blind and wonderous. Also dangerous and forbidden. 

True love will stay strong. And the willing partners will and work through anything that life designs to break them apart. While the weak falls apart. Love no matter what is always blind in the beginning. So it's wonderous. But when the new wears off. Where does it leave us? 

In some cases heart broken. Because we realize it was the idea that we loved the most. In some cases we see things or flaws that we didn't see before. How do we cope?  Well some walk away. Others accept it. 

There's danger in love too. That's the kind where you choose the wrong person to be with and you don't care about the outcome, leaving you vulnerable to heartache. The kind that you rather live on the edge, doing what you please. Without worries of the aftermath. 

The forbidden kind. The most dangerous of all but thrill seekers love it or people wanting what they can't have. Yes I'm talking about wanting a partner that is already involved. Some take it as far as going after that particular person. Ask yourself is it really worth it? 

So at the end of the day. Before you lay down dig deep in your heart ask yourself are you really in love. Because there is a difference in loving someone and being inlove. Being inlove , nothing, I mean nothing will get in the way. You make time for that person. You show that person, that they are respected and valued as your partner. You wouldn't stop thinking about them. 

But just loving someone. Sure you don't want nothing bad to happen to them. And you want to see them happy no matter what. The same as you would do for your family or friends. 

So please be careful with your heart and figure out what kind of love you have !