I just received an instant message from a good friend of mine telling me about how her children are doing in school. One made the A-B Honor roll and is asked to be in Beta Club. The other almost got on the honor roll but recieved 1 C.
Before I get rolling here, let me say I AM VERY HAPPY that her kids are doing well. I LOVE to see kids do well in school.
HOWEVER
WHEN IN THE WORLD did the honor roll become an A-B Honor Roll. When I was growing up (which I think I am still doing) you had to have ALL A's. It is this type of lowering the standards that I feel we are teaching our children that it is ok to not strive for the best.
Universities are lowering SAT score standards, Kids play soccer but no team loses because they do not keep score, Children are required to wear helmuts and knee pads when riding a bike because we are afraid they will get scraped and bruised, we no longer teach music and art in school because it doesn't bring the money in like sports and we wouldn't want anyone to get a well rounded education, and the list goes on and on (just like this run-on sentence).
I keep seeing signs that we have turned into a society of mediocrity. My fear is that we are giving children false expectations.
The honor roll used to be for the top of the class. Now it appears that that almost anyone can do it without much effort. However when they get to the real world they will find out that the world does not owe them anything, and that you will get hurt and need to know how to pick yourself up and cary on. The spoils go to those that put in the effort and are determined.
Again, these are just my thoughts and you may totaly disagree with me. I just hate seeing the US education slip away while we outsource our tech jobs to India and everything else to China. If we are to survive, we need to teach kids how to dream, strive, work, and improve.
