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i got a call from my mom yesterday telling me that my grandma will most likely not make it to see the end of next week...this is a really hard time for me...shes been in the hospital since august because she fell and broke her hip...shes gone through 2 hip rod surgeries, then a total hip replacement since then...now they say that she has an infection all through her and on monday they are goin to take out all the stuff they put in her for the surgeries...then they are goin to call in hospice...shes only in her 60's...she hasnt been the same since my grandfather passed in 05..she has dementia and her short term memory is completely gone...they ended up putting a feeding tube through her nose last week because she wouldnt eat...please pray that if she does pass..that she do it peacefully...shes been in so much pain the last few months...i wanna be selfish and say that i would like you to pray that she gets better...but i know that its not a likely outcome...i know shes in pain and all shes been talking about lately is goin to see grandpa and that she wants to leave this place...thank you everyone ~nessa

this happened in ypsilanti michigan does anyone know someone that has a lifted dodge 4x4 silver with the license plate IJL U45 or 1JL U45 please let me know....this little fucker just tried to run me off the road with a 2 year old in the car. He yelled and told me to get out of his way then tried to run me off the road...i have no clue who he was but i wanna know who he is...plz let me know and repost please. it happened on grove rd right by lake shore apartments. ~nessa

1. First, you must learn to pronounce the city name. It's Deh-troit. NOT DEE-troit. If you pronounce it DEE-Troit then we will assume you are from Toledo and here for the country Music hoe-down. 2. Forget the traffic rules you learned elsewhere. Detroit has its own version of traffic rules... Hold on and pray (I recommend praying 1st)! 3. The morning rush hour is from 6:00 am to 10:00 am. The evening rush hour is from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm. Friday's rush hour starts Thursday morning. Weekends are open game. 4. If you actually stop at a yellow light, you will be rear-ended, cussed out and possibly shot. If you're first off the starting line when the light turns green, count to five before going across the intersection. This will avoid getting in the way of cross-traffic who just ran their yellow light to keep from getting rear-ended or shot. 5. Schoenherr can ONLY be properly pronounced by a native of the Detroit metro area. That goes for Gratiot too. 6. Construction and renovation on I-94, I-96, I-75, I-275, I-375, The Lodge and The Southfield Freeways are a way of life and forever. Just deal with it. 7. If someone actually has their turn signal on, it is probably a factory defect or they are "out-of-towners". 8. All old men (or women) with white hair wearing a hat have total right-of-way. 9. The minimum acceptable speed on I-696 and I-275 is 85 regardless of the posted speeds. Anything less is considered downright SISSY. Oh, and don't even think of allowing more than one car length between cars! 10. That attractive wrought iron on the windows and doors in Detroit is NOT ornamental. DO NOT get out of your car to take pictures. 11. Never stare at the driver of the car with the bumper sticker that says "Keep honking, I'm reloading", he or she probably is. 12. If you are in the left lane, and only going 70 in a 60 mph zone, people are not waving because they are so friendly in Detroit. I would suggest you duck. 13. I-275 and I-696 is our daily version of NASCAR. 14. It's not M-10, it's "the Lodge". 15. That's not a lake, it's a pothole. 16. If someone tells you it's on Outer Drive, you better hope you have a map. 17. The Michigan left turn is simple. If you want to turn left, go a 1/4 of a mile past your turn, get to the left, then make a left, then make a right when you get back to the intersection where you wanted to turn left in the first place. NOW you have gone left. 18. And those 2 really ugly arches over Telegraph on I94???? DON'T EVEN ASK!! WE DON'T HAVE A CLUE!!!!! WELCOME, ENJOY YOUR STAY, BUT AVOID EYE-CONTACT WITH THE LOCALS

i was wondering if i could get some help...my ex boyfriend and i have a bet goin on...We're trying to see who can get to lvl 18 the first...If I win, he's making me his "famous" chicken alfredo...if he wins then i have to shave his hairy back...can you please help me!!! i'll rate ur stuff in return!! thank you soo much! if u've read my mumm then you already know. lol

2 songs from carrie underwood that help sum up how i'm feeling about a certain person "Starts With Goodbye" I was sitting on my doorstep, I hung up the phone and it fell out of my hand, But I knew I had to do it, And he wouldn't understand, So hard to see myself without him, I felt a piece of my heart break, But when you're standing at a crossroad, There's a choice you gotta make. [Chorus:] I guess it's gonna have to hurt, I guess I'm gonna have to cry, And let go of some things I've loved, To get to the other side, I guess it's gonna break me down, Like falling when you try to fly, It's sad, but sometimes moving on with the rest of your life, Starts with goodbye. I know there's a blue horizon, Somewhere up ahead, just waiting for me, Getting there means leaving things behind, Sometimes life's so bitter sweet. [Chorus:] I guess it's gonna have to hurt, I guess I'm gonna have to cry, And let go of some things I've loved, To get to the other side, I guess it's gonna break me down, Like falling when you try to fly, It's sad, but sometimes moving on with the rest of your life, Starts with goodbye. Time, time heals, The wounds that you feel, Somehow, right now. [Chorus:] I guess it's gonna have to hurt, I guess I'm gonna have to cry, And let go of some things I've loved, To get to the other side, I guess it's gonna break me down, Like falling when you try to fly, It's sad, but sometimes moving on with the rest of your life, Starts with goodbye, I guess I'm gonna have to cry, And let go of some things I've loved, To get to the other side, Starts with goodbye, The only way you try to find, Moving on with the rest of your life, Starts with goodbye, Na na na na na na na. "Lessons Learned" There's some things that I regret, Some words I wish had gone unsaid, Some starts, That had some bitter endings, Been some bad times I've been through, Damage I cannot undo, Some things, I wish I could do all all over again, But it don't really matter, Life gets that much harder, It makes you that much stronger, Oh, some pages turned, Some bridges burned, But there were, Lessons learned. [Chorus:] And every tear that had to fall from my eyes, Everyday I wondered how I'd get through the night, Every change, life has thrown me, I'm thankful, for every break in my heart, I'm grateful, for every scar, Some pages turned, Some bridges burned, But there were lessons learned. There's mistakes that I have made, Some chances I just threw away, Some roads, I never should've taken, Been some signs I didn't see, Hearts that I hurt needlessly, Some wounds, That I wish I could have one more chance to mend, But it don't make no difference, The past can't be rewritten, You get the life you're given, Oh, some pages turned, Some bridges burned, But there were, Lessons learned. [Chorus:] And every tear that had to fall from my eyes, Everyday I wondered how I'd get through the night, Every change, life has thrown me, I'm thankful, for every break in my heart, I'm grateful, for every scar, Some pages turned, Some bridges burned, But there were lessons learned. And all the things that break you, Are all the things that make you strong, You can't change the past, Cause it's gone, And you just gotta move on, Because it's all, Lessons learned. [Chorus:] And every tear that had to fall from my eyes, Everyday I wondered how I'd get through the night, Every change, life has thrown me, I'm thankful, for every break in my heart, I'm grateful, for every scar, Some pages turned, Some bridges burned, But there were lessons learned, Oh, some pages turned, Some bridges burned, But there were lessons learned, Lessons learned.

Your dating personality profile: Religious - Faith matters to you. It is the foundation that you build your life upon. You trust that God has a plan for you. Funny - You laugh often. People never accuse you of lacking a sense of humor. You don't take yourself too seriously. Practical - You are a down-to-earth individual who is not impressed with material excess. You care about the stuff of like that really matters.

Your date match profile: Practical - You are drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn you off. You appreciate the simpler side of living. Funny - You consider a good sense of humor a major necessity in a date. If his jokes make you laugh, he has won your heart. Religious - You seek someone who is grounded in faith and who possesses religious values. You believe that a religious person can enhance your life.

Your Top Ten Traits 1. Religious 2. Funny 3. Practical 4. Liberal 5. Traditional 6. Adventurous 7. Outgoing 8. Sensual 9. Wealthy/Ambitious 10. Athletic

Your Top Ten Match Traits 1. Practical 2. Funny 3. Religious 4. Shy 5. Conservative 6. Traditional 7. Athletic 8. Adventurous 9. Sensual 10. Wealthy/Ambitious

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Law of Mechanical Repair: After your hands become coated with grease, your nose will begin to itch or you‘ll have to pee. Law of the Workshop: Any tool, when dropped, will roll to the least accessible corner. Law of Probability: The probability of being watched is directly proportional to the stupidity of your act. Law of the Telephone: If you dial a wrong number, you never get a busy signal. Law of the Alibi: If you tell the boss you were late for work because you had a flat tire, the very next morning you will have a flat tire. Variation Law: If you change lines (or traffic lanes), the one you were in will start to move faster than the one you are in now. Law of the Bath: When the body is fully immersed in water, the telephone rings. Law of Close Encounters: The probability of meeting someone you know increases when you are with someone you don‘t want to be seen with. Law of the Result: When you try to prove to someone that a machine won‘t work, it will. Law of Biomechanics: The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach. Law of the Theatre: At any event, the people whose seats are furthest from the aisle arrive last. Law of Coffee: As soon as you sit down to a cup of hot coffee, you boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold. Murphy‘s Law of Lockers: If there are only two people in a locker room, they will have adjacent lockers. Law of Rugs and Carpets: The chances of an open-faced jelly sandwich landing face down on a floor covering are directly correlated to the newness and cost of the carpeting. Law of Location: No matter where you go, there you are. Law of Logical Argument: Anything is possible if you don‘t know what you are talking about. Brown‘s Law: If the shoe fits, it‘s ugly. Oliver‘s Law: A closed mouth gathers no feet. Wilson‘s Law: As soon as you find a product that you really like, they will stop making it.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man Before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not Treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better. " You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a realationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a Bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why Would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.Relationships should be based on a 200uota rather than a 100uota- 100ou and 100im. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute To find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to like them, a week to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

i posted a new folder named "captions!" if u guys/gals have the time, i'd love to hear ur responses to some of the pics! *muah* much love! -nessa786