What does it mean to be real ?
So many times I get asked what I mean by real.
I guess if one had to ask themselves what real is, they are probaly not being real themselves.
It seems with the birth of the net it has givin people the right to become a porn star , rock star , super hero , model , cassanova , or pretty much anything you they can dream up.
Its a pretty sad day when people live there their lives as someone they are not, they fear the world will not like them for who and what they really are.
I see people in desperation to find their long lost lost love, their soul mates , or a bed buddy.
People seem to say all the right things, they offer all your dreams, they fit all the parts just right.
To bad there 5000 miles away, and it will never happen, Makes me wonder why people can not apply these skills in real life.
Maybe becauce most of what you find on the net is to good to be true.
Its pretty easy to lie to everyone including yourself when you dont have to look someone in the eyes.
Its really disturbing to see so many profiles that use other peoples photo;s to get your attention, then you go to look and its noting like what there showing.
Or the people that trample others just becauce they are not perfect 10's, or just plain rude to those that they agree with.
I thought we were all human, and incapable of being perfect, but so many try and be perfect, or think everyone else should be.
Why not just allow others to be who and what they are, and you might even try and allow yourself to as well.
No one should feel pressured to become that kind of person, where you never look bad, say something wrong, or got forbid make a mistake.
Quit living in a faery tale world just becauce you can.
If I met half the people I have on the net in real life, I think I would shoot half of them then be freinds with them for the way they act to others, and there mistreatment of the people around them.
I believe in truth, and honesty, and I will never judge one by there outer shell, but will take a chance and get to know someone first.
If I find you to be a fake, I will discard you like unwanted clutter around my house.
Keep it real folks.
