Maha's blog: "Life As I See It"

     I have been thinking alot about this lately.  I watch people and can't help but wonder why they make it so hard to be happy.  Everyone talks about what they want to make their life better or to make them complete, content, whole....Happy.  However, how often do these people actually do anything but talk about it.  It seems most are online in these social websites because they are seeking something or someone...the man/woman of their dreams mainly and occasionally their search is over, but usually they keep seeking.  It seems that most on here have heart problems...they have been hurt by someone in the past.  What usually ends up happening is they in turn hurt someone else that was searching for the same exact thing... a person to love and be loved by.  Why does this happen?..well cuz everyone must pay for others wrongs.  My thoughts?..if you want to be happy just do it...stop wasting precious time.  If you love someone (and they love you) just love them, do what needs to be done to make each others lives happy, don't fight, ignore, take for granted, mistrust, or all those other things that put doubt in the mind and heart.  Instead, listen to each other and listen to your heart...after all isn't that what feels the hole?..trust in your senses, if you love someone share with them...they are not the enemy, they are there as your other half.  Whatever spiritual/religious belief people have I think all agree that a couple is 2 people that complete each other, compliment the other, 1 person's flaws are made lesser by the other's excellence.  We need each other, why spend so much time pushing each other away?...so much time wasted saying what you want but no time going for it.  I tend to see things in black and white with very little room for gray.  We either want someone or we don't, be honest with yourself and others.  If you are out to play games find someone who wants to play games too...don't lie to someone who makes it clear they want their other half and tell them you want to be that if clearly all you want is to use them ( cuz this allows for the rest of us to pay your price ) and if you want to genuinly share your heart with another then do it with a fresh start...I'm guessing we only live once, why not make it the best life we can get!

To be continued...