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BDSM =
Bondage & Discipline,
Dominance & Submission,
Sadism & Masochism
To most it may seem a lil' fucked up, but to the few, it is a way of life. Pain is pleasure, pain is an art, pain is beautiful. To the many, pain is just that, a reaction to things that probably should "hurt"or likewise be unenjoyed. It's not only that. Pain is a reminder we are living. Pain, to those that truely charish what it is, can be one of, if not, the most erotic stimulation of them all.
We have the whips and chains
We have the ball gag
And the oh so pleasing, dripping candle wax.
That is only the beginning. seeing as its such an underground practice, I can't share the play piercing (sticking needs through the skin, for arousal), fear play (teasing with knives and razorblades, or more simply, just teasing a mate through their fears..), tit torture (nipple clamps, sticking a number of needle's through one's nips [play piercing again]), fire//ice play (catching substances like rubbing alcohol on fire either near, or directly on the skin [need to be veryyy careful of course] and on the other extreme of the spectrum, rubbing ice cubes across one's naked body..)
that my friends, is not a collection of societies fuck ups, but it is beauty, it is a lifestyle, it is a way of life. I have charished what many greatly fear for all my life. Pain is something everyone feels, instead of fearing, I have embraced.
Unfortuanately, I'm one in the few who enjoy's this fetish. If I were to come out of the bedroom with my special someone, bleeding from the back, whip marks bruised on my skin from head to toe, mild burns on one's chest or stomach from the dripping candles, well I would be in bliss.
Sex is just such a bore to me. It has nothing to do with the person, or myself, I just don't see the pleasure in it. I have to have the biting, scratching, clawing, scrapping, bleeding, and all other torturous aspects of it all to really enjoy myself.
And no this is not wrong, no this is not abuse. People who are practicing BDSM in any of its forms are doing it voluntarily, for fun. Everything that happens in a BDSM relationship is consensual and believe it or not, it's not just about the dominant getting what he or she wants it's more about the submissive getting what he or she wants.
*Sigh* Idk, maybe one day, I'll find me a girl who likes to be tied up, or is willing to flog me till the early morning hours. Tho I highly doubt it, one can still dream. Now that you've seen this side of meh, I'm going to get some rest. xD
Any BDSM fanatic's that want to talk, just write me
