I live in Vermont the beautiful green mountain state. Its beautiful in the winter when the snows at its best. I was a dairy farmer for many years, until I went into Care of the elderly in 1984. I still kept a few animals, chickens, heifers, horses, and my love of animals my oxen. I've had and raised, and trained oxen since 1981. There a very inteligent animal, no matter what people might say about cattle. You can train them to do anything you wish them to do that a dog can do. (lol well except fetch) I'm a fairly resonable woman when treated with respect and given the opportunity to prove myself as worthy as the next human. You'll always know whats on my mind whether you like it or not. If its there to say, and needs saying, man I do say it. There's one thing about me alot of people don't like or appreciate. That my friend is that I do know how to handle myself and to take care of myself without the aid of a man. I can fight as well as any man, and hold my own at it also. Maybe its not something to be proud of or lady like, but I came from a family of sixteen children of which nine were brothers. If you couldn't fight your way through the day, then you lost alot before nightfall. One thing being a nice warm bed to sleep in, as there only eight beds in our small house. If you didn't have your bed won before night time then you slept with the ghosts and goblins on blankets on the floor. Myself I preferred the soft warm cozy bed myself, so when I was old enough to figure out how to win a bed for the night, I usually had one a few nights a week. lol My best friend is my guy I sleep with now. I was married for 26 and a half years until he walked out one day and said bye. I then found what is truly the best friend a person could ever ask for. He was there when I needed him the most, to listen to me and dry my tears, to hold me and soothe me. He never said he was sick of listenning to my troubles and worries over my ex leaving. He listenned some night until morning then into the next day without blowing his top or telling me to give it a rest. This man is now my best friend, my lover, and my master. There you go, this is my story, my life, and my woes.